What’s the difference between a Heart Horse and a Soul Horse

Merlin. © Teddie Ziegler

Washington, USA (Weltexpress). My husband and I went out to see Merlin, on one of his weekly visits, and while we were walking up to the gate, Merlin whinnied for us as he ran to the gate to greet us. That made us both smile as this was the first time Merlin had greeted us like this.

My husband had seen Jazz, Apollo, and D’Artagnan do this for me a million times, so he didn’t really see anything out of the ordinary here. But it was different. Merlin had not done this before.

At first I thought it was because Merlin wanted to get away from the horse he was pastured with and he was excited to go out and play. But I quickly realized that wasn’t it.

We both went into the pasture and set up our chairs so we could just hang out with the horses for a bit before starting our training. Then my husband realized that he had left his book in the car. So he left the pasture and started down the path towards the car.

Merlin then ran to the gate, bypassing me, stuck his head all the way over the fence as far as he could and started to whinny. He whinnied a few times. He was trying to call him back.

And not only for Merlin. My husband said the next day that he couldn’t get Merlin out of his head and he really, really wanted to get him. That had not even been an option on the table as I was still trying to get Kit.

Before we saw Merlin, my husband was actually trying to talk me out of getting another horse. So that is how far getting another horse was from my husband’s thoughts. He wasn’t having anything to do with another horse, until he met Merlin.

We went to this farm to find a place to relocate Kit for his current owner, not to buy another horse. But the connection was so strong and so deep that my husband had to get him. He said there was no other choice or option, he was going to do whatever he needed to get Merlin. So, we did.

Merlin. © Teddie Ziegler

I told my husband that Merlin is his soul horse.

He said, “Like Jazz was for you?” I said no. Jazz had been my heart horse and D’Artagnan was my soul horse. I’ve only had one of each my entire life and I am blessed to have had both of them.

Here is how I explained each and the difference:

A soul horse is one that instantly connects to you and vice versa. No explanation, no training, no work, nothing… just pure connection. It’s love at first sight. My husband and I had this when we met and it was easy to explain the feeling this way to him.

He says that he has always liked horses, but never being a horse person per se, he really couldn’t care one way or the other. But he never wanted to own a horse or felt the need to ride a horse. Indifferent is a good word to describe him with horses.

However, he enjoyed going out every once in a while and being with and grooming Jazz, Apollo, and D’Artagnan. But he never really connected with them. He loved them, but it was like being around a friend he had known for a few years. Nothing more. He cared, but…

This was the first time in his life that he has felt this way about a horse, or any animal for that matter.

  • He has to be close to Merlin and Merlin has to be close to him when they are together.
  • Merlin chooses to be with him over being with another horse.
  • He just knows what Merlin is thinking and feeling and vice-versa.
  • Merlin listens to him without question. And he doesn’t know cues or commands, he just verbally asks him to do something and Merlin does it!
  • It’s like two best friends that have known each other all their lives.
  • They both act as if they can read each other’s minds.
  • Their interactions are effortless and natural.

For Example: I was picking up Merlin’s hooves and he kept picking them up too high and losing his balance. Before I could think of how to fix the issue, my husband whispers to Merlin and asks him to just pick his feet up slightly. Then he said, “I know you can do this”. And darn if he didn’t do it exactly as my husband had asked him to.

This little 7-month-old colt was not only listening to my husband, but he understood him explicitly.

It’s beautiful to see and even more special since my husband doesn’t know much about horses. I enjoy it though because it used to be a chore to get him out with my other horses, but not with Merlin. He actually makes time and says, “Are we going out to see Merlin today?”

Whenever he wants, I make sure we go. They both are amazing together and it’s great to watch. I can’t wait to teach my husband how to ride Merlin. They will both be learning for the first time together.

That is a soul horse.

FB-Dancing with D’Artagnan

Now what is a heart horse and how is that different?

Well, Jazz was my heart horse. We met and with time, we fell in love. We learned about each other, we worked on our relationship, we had our ups and downs, but we worked it out and became best friends.

But it was something that formed over time and with effort. He was my heart horse because we had become so, so, close over time. I trusted him with my life and I know he trusted me with his. There were many occasions that we proved this to each other. Those experiences also brought us even closer together.

The relationship was so close that we did know what the other was thinking and feeling. We took care of each other and protected each other. We were so in sync that we could read each other’s thoughts, body language, and emotions instantly.

We would have done anything for each other. All I or he had to do was ask and the answer was always, “Yes, of course. Anything for you”. I could feel him deep down in my heart. When something was wrong I could tell even if I wasn’t there. We had such a deep connection that I always knew if he needed me and I would always go to him, even if it was in the middle of the night.

And as close and loving as that relationship was, it was still not as close as a soul horse. A soul horse speaks to your soul and your spirit. I would say that when people talk about a spirit horse, it’s the same thing as I call a soul horse. It is magical. It can’t be trained, earned, made, or really explained. It just is.

D’Artagnan and I met and that’s exactly what happened. It was fireworks going off and my heart and soul were his. It was unbelievable and instant. It was instinctual.

And you know it! You don’t have to think about it, you just know it. Unquestionable. And I knew he felt the same way with me. If you look at the video below of the two of us dancing together for the first time, you’ll see it.

This was the first time he and I had been in the arena together and we had never done anything together before this. No training at all. I had only known him a few weeks and had just sat outside his pasture before taking him in the arena.

D’Artagnan was a wild stallion that was going to be put down because he didn’t like people and was very aggressive. But in this video you can see that he is responding to me instinctually and following everything I did. He is reading my body language and tapping into my emotions.

He was a different horse with me. Because we were connected at the soul level. We had so much fun doing this. It was completely unexpected, but very much appreciated.

D’Artagnan was my once in a lifetime soul horse. And Merlin is my husband’s once in a lifetime soul horse. I’m excited to see how it unfolds with them and what the two of them can do together.

I love the little guy with all my heart, and over time I’m sure we will be best friends. But I know his spirit belongs to my husband. It’s the two of them for life. I’m just along for the ride. And I’m happy to be a part of both of their lives.

If you’ve had a soul horse or a heart horse, please tell us about him or her in the Comments sections over on my blog, we’d love to hear your story.

Until next week, Happy Horses!

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